Her sharing with such a beautiful story about her background was very inspiring to the group. We usually see the premier on T.V debating about social issues, often with ANC, and think “She’s fighting for power…”  And today we got the opportunity to see the leader through different eyes, and not through those of the media.

We learnt that being a leader takes enormous courage and perseverance. It was a very powerful message she delivered to the group.

It is unbelievable that an important figure like Premier Helen Zille would use up her time to come and visit a small group like Students for Humanity. Prioritising is an important characteristic of a leader and Premier Helen Zille surely knows how to. This was a once in a life time opportunity and we feel very privileged.

Written by: Busisiwe Mashele

I would prefer to commence with giving you all the positive factors that somehow developed the unique and courageous person I am. I would also like to outline the negative factors which I believe that have also played a major role in building my character. I will also mention the likes and dislike which you might find interesting.

Zoom in on your global map and you’ll find in Africa a well known sunny country called South Africa, further down you’ll find a big city called Cape Town. I live in a small region in Cape Town called Khayelitsha. Every month, week, or day is filled with entirely new experiences for mostly the young stars like me who love touring Khayelitsha.

Kindly allow me to take you on an imaginary tour around Khayelitsha. The first thing that forcefully grabs everyone‘s attention is the unity among the people of Khayelitsha. You’ll hear people screaming, laughing and some shouting for joy. Happiness is seen in every child’s face. Most parents may be single but I assure you they fully show their children love that even covers the role of an absent father. They are always helped by the whole community. A parent takes the neighbour‘s child as his or her own. The community churches also play a major role in sustaining the already existing unity. Sunday mornings are dedicated to teaching the children bible verses and the afternoons are for church that includes all ages. Schools, schools, schools, to me are just the most important places around, although I don’t really like school work, but true friends are made there. They keep you busy doing good things rather than sitting in the street planning some thinking about bad things.

The above are some things that keep us away from doing wrong things at a young age, but when we reach teenage stage there are huge changes taking place. The world appears as new and up for grabs. At that age you’ll see most of the teenagers starting to form small groups. In these groups they come up with all negative things that would make them more popular. Few of them join the groups because of being in need of money to sustain themselves. But most of the teenagers join because of peer pressure. Now you’ll find touring at night very different and scary. You’ll see big mobs running around trying to make the whole community small. But some of them do realise that this is just a waste of time although it is joyful because they become feared in the whole community and get a chance to even use guns, drive expensive cars and smoke all kinds of drugs just for them to feel high.

For some us who had managed or luckily escaped that kind of life, the new life is amazing every day. We live lives that the whole society prefers. We like playing soccer a lot and we often have little tournaments on Saturdays among our small local teams. We attend church every Sunday and go for bible studies on Thursdays. I personally like listening to African music and some hip-hop, but you’ll often find me listening to reggae because it some how connects me to a world which I do not know that is full of joy. Some of my friends like local music that they make themselves. They send good messages to the community and mostly to the lost youth. Every afternoon we attend a community group that bring good to the whole community. Our group is called DCYM (Delegate Children and Youth Movement). We help old people in our community with washing, groceries and painting. At school I attend good special projects like this Students for humanity project.

Believe it or not but life is really a journey to the bright future. That is my description of life from my experiences and with out them I would not be where I am today and I wouldn’t have made the decisions that I made during the process of living. Each and everyday is important in my life and I try by all means to make an effort to achieve something in my life. One wise man had once said to me, “Live life to the fullest and never put your problems aside for tomorrow because you will never know what the next day holds for you.. or something worse, what if tomorrow might never come for you? Would you like to live in regrets and sorrow for rest of your life? Or would you stand up for yourself and be a man? Think twice before you do anything”  Those words left me with something to think about for the rest of my life.

From my observation through out the years I found that people describe life according to their experiences in it. I have always believed that life is a journey nothing more, nothing less. We all have to walk through this path and we will meet obstacles, challenges and sometimes we have to climb up some mountains and get sweaty to achieve our goals and ambitions. Many give up in early stages of life because they are not so focused or they live under a polluted atmosphere, with negative people. To deal with death of a friend, classmate, boyfriend or girlfriend is not an easy task to live with in this universe we live in. Because those people are who we love and trust mostly in our childhood and teenage life because they understand us better than any adult.

Teenage life is very enjoyable, fun and the most risky stage of our lives. In our life-path I would compare it with a river. Many do not reach the other side of the river,  some drown on shore, without any action while others just choose to flow with it. This is a very crucial stage of our lives. Girls lose their virginity, get pregnant at a very early age while boys are involve in crime, drugs, violance and manymore. Both girls and boys get involved in relationships and that is the flow with a river. Just letting life flow with them. As I said many do not reach the other side of the river, that is, they do not get through thier teenage life clean, having goals in life or knowing what to do with their lives.

In life it is very challenging and difficult to get what one wants, but like I said before it is a journey to the bright future and we have to strive for our ambitions. As one author said, “Never give up. Never ever give up”. Let’s all go there and achieve those goals. With or without support we will succeed. This was meant to be and I have a strong belief that every one has a mission on Earth. Lets accomplish our missions. I believe in you. That you can.

A nations pride lies within its young girls and women. In order for a nation to prosper in all aspects, its young women need to be of high dignity and pride. It is of utter importance that a girl maintains her purity until marriage because that reflects the kind of person she is & her family’s upbringing.

This is what I have been told ever since I could remember & this is what I believed in. I respected myself and my body and did not engage in any uncalled for activities. I always participated in the famous Zulu Virginity testing ceremony and my parents prided themselves in me. I was Intombi nto(Virgin) and was proud of myself.

It was not until after the grade 10 school holidays that a catastrophe occurred.

He had always looked at me in an uncomfortable manner. His eyes told a story. A story of hurt and pain. I tried to warm up to him and let him know that he could talk to me if he ever needed someone to talk to. He was an awfully quiet matriculate and students said that not all was okay for him upstairs. I did not believe this. I always said he just needed someone to be his friend. Being the kind and loving person that I am, I took it upon myself to be that person for him.

During intervals I would try and stir up a conversation with him but I was always responded with a cold answer. “No”, “yes” is all I ever got out of him. But I continued trying anyway. Then one afternoon he came up to me. “There’s something I want to talk to you about. Meet me 9pm sharp near MaDlamini’s shop.” Naturally I agreed hoping that he had warmed up to and would tell me what his problem or problems were. I had been patient with him. Patience is one of the things my parents had told me to practice with people. “Patience my girl. Good things come to those that wait” my father had once said smoking his pipe. Little did I know that that night nothing close to good was coming nowhere near me.

I sneaked out the window because I knew there was no way my parents would let me out of the house at that time even if it was for helping a friend out. Now.. I wish I had.

I met him but he wasn’t his usual self. He smelt terrible. A mixture of alcohol and something more than just a cigarette. Then it all happened it all too fast. Out of nowhere three other guys appeared. I tried to fight them off but before I realized it, we were behind the bushes and not a sound could come out of my mouth. They raped me…….one by one. And just like that, they took away the most precious gift that I had, my virginity. Up to this moment I can still smell their alcoholic breathes on my skin. The smell made me want to puke.

I sneaked back into the house and literally scrubbed my skin off. I thought I could make their smell go away. I did not want a trace of them on my skin. I felt dirty……I was dirty. I cried all night. I lied the next morning. Said I had a terrible headache so my mum said I ought to stay at home.

Weeks went by and I became thinner and thinner. My grades dropped from A to D.

I felt suicidal. I never saw him at school again. Rumors said that he had left for Johannesburg with his friends who were well known criminals.

I thought that I could keep what happened a secret. I don’t know why I thought this way.

Two months later, I had missed my period for the second time. How was I going to explain this to my parents. I would rather die than disgrace my them. And that was the fate that I was going to follow. I took an overdose of tablets.

The rest they say is history. I woke up in hospital two months later. I had lost the baby. My rape baby. I explained everything to my parents and surprisingly they were understanding. They did not blame me. Said I should have told them. Now my rapists had gotten away with what they had done.

I got better and started being my old self again but my virginity was gone. Taken away in a painful manner and by the wrong people. I would give anything to have it back again but since I never can, I told myself to abstain till marriage.

BY:ZIKHONA MPOTULO

As the kick off of an exciting cultural exchange we’ll be doing with the South African StudentsforHumanity, we got together in Hilversum.

“What would you like to know from a south african youth in Capetown?”

Well…. Erhmmm…. What can I say?…

A bit hesitant at first, inspiration started flowing pretty soon: “What do you do in your spare time?”, “What kind of music do you listen to?”, “Do you play sports?”, but also deeper questions like “Are you religious?” and “How do you see your future?” A sound basis for a real cultural exchange. Questions that we hope to find answers on, trying to understand the african way of living.

And there was great enthusiasm to answer the questions that the <a href=” http://studentsforhumanity.com/about/”>Khayelistha group</a> is interested in. Linde and Darleen will try to explain how the Dutch look at same sex relationships, Anne will write about going out, Lucienne hopes to formulate her biggest dream (and maybe those of others too), Bart will tell you about Dutch traditions and Pim about the role of religion in the Netherlands… but that’s just a start!

We will have another meeting soon, in which we’ll try to answer some of your questions but also think of new ones to ask. We are very curious about the differences between the Dutch and African culture, and the question why these differences exist. New information will be added to the site after each meeting. Answers to the above questions will be posted in this blog, together with pictures to give you a better image of our life in the Netherlands.

So… yes, we have started… and are looking forward to get to know you better!

Refugee VI football club is an initiative by Ephraim Ntlamo 17 years old. Refugee VI is a youth soccer club based in Cape Town, South Africa.  It was formed in September 2009. The purpose of this team is not only to kick some balls around.  According to the United Nations Refugee Agency [UNHCR] South Africa hosts some 40,00 refugees and over 100,000 asylum -seekers. A large part of these refugees are unaccompanied children between the age group of 15 and 18 who fled their countries on their own without any friend nor family member. After the xenophobic attacks in May 2008  the relationship between foreign nationals from other African states  and South African local communities became fragile.  As a refugee child my self I thought it would be necessary to form a sport institution that will can be part of the solution towards the difficult integration process and that will also give refugee children something  to keep themselves busy thinking positively about life, bring back the the fun, friendship, self esteem and confidence which I learned we  refugee children miss badly.

The real issue that drove me to spend most of my time getting this team together was the fact that refugee children face different sorts of discrimination. This discrimination becomes mostly visible in schools or in public transport. I felt that there is a need of communication between and mutual understanding of refugees and the local communities. The challenge is how can this be achieved? In my opinion, this difficult integration process can easily be achieved through sport. So the idea of Refugee VI is that we play soccer while spreading the message and the awareness about refugees. Like, where do we come from? What made us flee our country?  How did we make it to South Africa? The idea is for us refugees not to isolate ourselves from the locals but to have a good rewarding relationship that benefits the community and the country as a whole. We have a few South African players in the team.

Why the name Refugee VI?  Refugees  in South Africa come mostly from the following  6 nations: Zimbabwe, Rwanda, Angola, Uganda, Somalia, and D.R.C

Lastly and most importantly Refugee VI serves to persuade other refugee children to consider education as the way to success or a better life. We meet after training and discuss issues like HIV/AIDS  and other sexually transmitted diseases. So far the idea has worked very well, some of the boys gave up their  jobs in the vine yard farms and look forward to brighten thier futures by attending school next year

IF WE CAN PLAY SOCCER TOGETHER ,WE CAN STOP XENOPHOBIA TOGETHER !

My vision for our group, Students for Humanity, is that we become active members in our communities. That we bring about positive change in people’s lives. And I take it upon myself to go out there into our communities and find out what exactly are some of the things that we can help them out with. I know of many struggling, community-based organizations that I feel we can assist.  I am also willing to go out there and find people who are willing to donate to or sponsor those organizations, so that they can continue with the good work that they are doing.
– MCYB

We, as students for humanity, want to do something important for our communities. So I want to contribute on the orphanage side, because I like working with people and children. To me, helping young people and working with young minds is what I enjoy most. I will also help finding sponsors.
– mfundo

I would like to be responsible for the compilation of short stories. I think that it is important for us to express our creativity and not let our talents fade, I mean, it is very rare for one to see young people actually having a short stories book that they can call their own. We, as the students for humanity, should see this as an opportunity to inspire other young people out there to also write about things that they experience in their communities. We, the students for humanity should not only concentrate on writting short stories in the genre of fantacy but should also write about realistic things so that other people, especially young people, can relate to our stories.
– Nanzi

I want to volunteer for community organizations. I will give my full time in helping other people in the communities and each project that will be generated by Studentsforhummanity. I want to be part of the forward going and exciting movement to help others in need. I would like to interact with others.
-– sbuja

I would like to register Studentsforhumanity as an organisation for the youth so that we can be sponsored by the government which allows us to sponsor other non-governmental organisations in our communities.
I will dedicate my time to find more information on how to get registered as a youth group.
– yara

Something that I would like us to do for the community, we must try and teach the disadvantaged primary schools about computer skills the basic skills that could help them to get advantage in terms of computing world. Also to educate them about the basic leadership skills that would help them to become the leaders of the future generation. And we must try to find a way in  which we could convince young, immature but intelligent and beautiful teenagers to stay away from drugs and start doing positive things in life and make them part of the students for humanity family.
-– spha

I like to visit orphanages and give them the love that they need. I would like the students for humanity members to collect old toys, or anything that they can give  to children. I truly think that its pointless for someone to have things that he/she doesn’t need, stored in their homes while other people really need those things, they would make them happy. Anything that anyone can give is more then welcome. We should also try our best to make government sponsered orphanges to be noticable, by maybe going out there and asking for donation and anything that they are willing to sponser. We should all have love for the people and help them because “umntu ngumntu ngabantu”
– Ntombie

I would like to volunteer in sport activities during December holidays.
I will establish contact with the orphanage home that is close to where I live.
I would also like to volunteer with the leadership courses in Maths and Science.
– wonga

I would really love to be part and parcel of the group that will be visiting places like orphanages, pre-schools etc.
Designing is one of my hobbies, due to that I would like to be with the group that will design the students for humanity membership card, poster, T-SHIRT etc.
– bulana

I would like to responsible for all the podcast that we do. I would like to make sure that we get it well organized, that podcasts are posted in time and with a variety of topics. I would also love to get involved in marketing the project so that we can get sponsors and raise something, which will allow us to do something for the community. I would also like to be part of the students for humanity group that will offer free extra lessons of science and maths to township schools, as our school focuses on them. All and all I would like to be responsible for the growth of this project.
–- siphe

Firstly I would like to be the person who is in charge of the Student for Humanity theme song/s, I’m able to write lyrics and I’m crazy in love with music. Secondly I would like to be part of a team that will seek sponsorships at big companies. I would also like to design the Student for Humanity t-shirt.
– skhumbuzo

I would like to be a leader of a poetry section, and to be a leader of a short story section because I am a story teller. There is an organization in my community that helps children after school, it’s like aftercare, they can teach us how to knit because they can. I would like to publish my own short story in this Studentsforhumanity short story book.
– Mkhuseli

My commitment is to visit an orphanage home, where I can help with taking care of the children at the home. I would like to visit, help out and at the same time look and listening to what their challenges are, how things can be better. I would also love to help with getting and approaching potential sponsors for the homes that need help.
–- nosizwe

In my community there are many places that need to be helped out by the youth. The help is not needed in the form of money, but in the form of a helping hand. We need to show love to the community. What I would like to do in my coomunity is help out with the young kids and old people. I would like to show the young kids the opportunities that are there for them and teach them to value education, because in my community most of the kids dont value education and life. I would do this by opening a leadship programm in their schools. I would also like to help in an old age home with the cleaning and making sure that people are happy.
-– mlamli

I would like to be the leader of the “short stories book”, because I am so curious about other peoples thoughts and backgrounds, what its like to be a living human being for them? I would also be interested in other people’s experiences in life, what kind of challenges are peope facing, what obstacles are there? My goal is to allow people to write about her/his personal story, to tell us the challenges that s/he faced then and now. I can see that students for humanity can intervene and help here and there.
-– aphish

I would like to be a teacher in the studentsforhumanity project. I want to teach whatever is there to teach that would make a difference, because it is all about making a difference e.g. I would like to be part of the teaching in the leadership course, singing, dancing, reading and telling stories. I would also like to be a researcher for the this project, but I do not want to research all the time.
– yandisa

I will go to my church and ask them if there will be holiday clubs this holiday. If there will be any I will try to persuade them into letting us take part into helping the children who are young in the streets and teach them the way to life and how to set their goals.
-– Iran

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From my knowledge and experience of culture up until this point, I can define culture as the shared expression of behaviors and interactions, and affective understanding that is learned through a process of socialization. These shared expressions identify the members of a culture group while also distinguishing those of another group. Culture is the way one expresses his or her self according to the way of one’s family belief-like style of living and it holds the history of one’s people. I am a Xhosa child and I was raised under and taught the Xhosa rituals and customs. Some of the practices that I do, I actually perform them because it is a must and I do not even know the meaning of them, nor the idea behind it all. Some of us, as the youth we do not value our culture because of the things affecting us in this generation.

– Mfundo

My life has been a reflection of what many young people are thinking about culture. For some reason I don’t seem to get across the fact we do things that are different but we are the same. This is the reason I say I need to investigate the matter.

That is why I say:

To me culture is a pure confusion

My thoughts are thick, I gather

What is it with the people?

Do I have a hard brain to understand?

Or it’s simply just the hard feelings of the unknown

Upon looking, I can’t go forward

I need a clean new start

I call upon the people to settle my thoughts

I call upon my imagination

I want to think today!!!!!!!!

– Bongi

What? Who? When? How? Why? These are some of the words that immediately come to my mind when I think of the concept of culture. What really is culture? Does it exist or does it not? I keep asking these questions which I cannot find answers to, and I am starting to make up my own answers, trying to create myself a little world with my own system of beliefs.

Ok. First there is Christianity and then there is African culture which, on its own, consists of many, different cultural belief systems. Which one of the two am I supposed to choose? Is one better then the other? It is quite difficult for me to make up my mind because all the belief systems that are out there actually have good reasoning behind their belts for their existence. Christians believe in God and they have the bible to refer to whenever an answer is needed to whatever question for whatever reason. Africanists also have substantial back up for all their practices, even though some may often appear as more bizarre than others.

Seeing that I cannot bring myself to choosing which one of the two to choose from and that I fail to find real answers to most, if any, of my questions. I have decided not to believe in either of the above systems but rather create my own system of beliefs. At the end of the day it is not what I believe in what will make me a better individual but rather the kind of choices I make.

— MCYB

I believe in all cultures. I for one see culture as what was thought by a person or people driven by what was occurring those days. Because of the wonders I have seen so far, I am bound to believe in the existence of the ancestors. Yes, they do exist because the people who believe in them (like the Sangomas) are actually succeeding and going somewhere because of them. A Sangoma is a traditional Zulu healer and respected elder who lives by frequently connecting with the ancestors. On my side, not to offend any reader, the LORD that was crucified on the cross because of my sins did die. But the extraordinary thing that makes him even more worthy to be praised is that he overcame death. He died but on the third day He raised from the dead. He concord death.

– N.Bulana

I was raised by a Sangoma, my mother was born in the Eastern

Cape and I was born in the Western Cape. I have no clue what is

culture all about. I do what I am told to do. I believe as they

believed in their culture, which they know in details. I tried to find out

about culture but found nothing. The saying that I came

across is: “I was told to this and I was not told why is it done, I

do it because I believe in older people”.

Some people believe in God and some in ancestors… I believe in both.

I never went to church but I think God knows that I do praise him. And I am confused that

there is God and ancestors, don’t they work together? If anyone has

answers please help me, why is there something called culture and what

is it for?

A Sangoma is someone who heals people in a traditional way using herbs

and these herbs they don’t just go to the bushes/forest and take them,

they dream while they are asleep and their ancestors tell them where

to go and dig for herbs to make medicine. Some people become

very ill and when sent to the doctor nothing will appear but the

doctor will say he/she is fine, until he/she is sent to a

Sangoma (Traditional healer).

It is a long process to become a real Sangoma, for some it takes a year or more. At first he/she wears all white clothes or all red and beads (that’s is the first phase). The color of the beads is not just chosen but also appears on her/his

dreams. Then when he/she is well in health and knows everything about

healing then they can wear their own clothes.

– Siphe

Culture is something that we as South Africans are diverse in. We have many different cultures in our country. I feel like culture is something that we have to value because leads us in life, it shows us the importance of life. But I also feel confused by some of the rituals; like doing circumcision and slaughtering a goat or sheep for a dead person. I don’t know why we have to perform some of the rituals. But all in all I think culture is the guide in life so that we can not make silly mistakes. It is also there so that we can make something better about our lives. We all have different cultures and some of those questions we have cannot be answered. In life though, we don’t have an answer to everything.

– M. Gadi

Some people believe that culture, the Xhosa culture to be precise, makes them who they are but what I do not understand in the Xhosa culture is the concept of ancestors. In my culture, people believe that the ancestors guide and protect them; they then perform various rituals to praise and to pray to the ancestors by slaughtering goats and cows. Ancestors are dead people right? How can they help people when they do not have the power to bring themselves to life? I think the whole topic on culture is more of a self fulfilling prophecy, if I believe that ancestors are my primary source to God then that means that praying to my ancestors will work for me. All in all I feel that we all have our own beliefs of who or what God is and I feel that we should not criticize other people’s cultures because we may not be sure whether our religions are the ideal ones. After all, if we all felt the same way about God then we would all be doing the same thing right? In conclusion, we should all do what works for us!

– Nanzi

What does culture mean to me?

This is one of the questions that I ask my self, but I do not have the answers. Many people, including me, cannot define the term culture and many people again including myself are confused by the culture that we have and as humans we have our own doubts.

What I could just say is that, it is not the culture that confuses us but the people who think they know something about the culture that confuses us, these are the people who tell us things that are not true and we should believe those things that they say, like my brother saying that I shouldn’t play soccer in the house (I know that I shouldn’t play soccer in the house), but when my brother says that I shouldn’t play soccer in the house, he says it like it is more than the ball being played in the house, it something like there is more to it. And when I try to ask why, he would say: “Mother said we shouldn’t play soccer and I didn’t argue so you too mustn’t ask questions that have no answers and that leave me in confusion.”

I also think that what makes people confused about cultures is that we live in a world were most of the things that we should know are kept as secrets from us. And as humans we cannot really believe in something that we do not see, like God and ancestors. Some people believe in Ancestors and others believe in God and we tell ourselves that this is the way while we know that we are not sure of what we are saying. We also say that there is power beyond us and we are not truly committing ourselves to that power because we can’t see the power we just think the power is there.

– Yandisa

Out there is Science, God, culture. Which one should I choose? There are so many people speaking different things to me. Which one must I believe? I have so many unanswered questions in my mind. At home my culture is emphasized, at school there is science and my community is filled with various churches with different Gods…I am confused…I don’t know what to believe anymore. As I am growing up, exploring and discovering new things I am becoming more and more confused. There are some rituals that we practice in my culture like, male circumcision, Lobola (=money paid by the groom for the bride), Imbeleko (a goat is slaughtered to introduce a baby to the ancestors).

I believe in both the ancestors and God because I am raised by a religious family. To me culture is what makes me who I am.

– Asithandile

I don’t believe everything in my culture because I don’t understand some things. And when I ask my elders, they don’t know some of the answers either.

Most people believe in different things but we have one thing in common, we all believe!!

Some people believe that there is God; some believe in ancestors, some don’t believe anything.

Most people don’t believe in God but they believe in Science. But who exactly controls the life we live if it’s not God. I believe that God is the one who controls the earth and the air we breathe. And sun comes every day. There is someone behind all this.

I think we must understand each other, and accept that we don’t believe the same thing.

– Mkhuseli

I believe in everything in life; I believe in god, ancestors and all other things in life. But in terms of my own culture I feel very proud to belong to something that is unique as “Culture”. I also believe that as a person you must have something to believe in, not knowing why, because once you know why all the things in life are being done, then what will happen? Your mind will not work and that is why you must always be wondering why most of the things are happening. Culture and its customs are diverse so that we feel as one of a kind and unique in the same time, it also gives the people who belong to the same culture a connection in a way.

– Sbuja

Your culture is defined by the way you interact with others, the language you speak, your dress-up, and your rituals and custom. And I belong in the XHOSA culture (http://www.sa-venues.com/language-xhosa.htm).

I really believe in my culture but sometimes it feels like, according to my point of view, everyone could believe in my culture. Can you imagine a nation that believes all the same thing?

I believe that my culture brings up humanity (Ubuntu) and most of things that are done or not done in my culture are to guide you to right things in life. For an example the payment of “ilobola”, which is the payment made by the groom’s family to the bride’s family as appreciation for raising up the bride. In this way a man would value his wife.

Some people do not even believe in their culture I’d like to convince those people to start to dig up about their culture so that they hold on to their cultures. While doing this, remember there are questions that cannot be answered.

It is up to you!

With love from the African cultured boy

– YARA. Peace!!!

The Students for Humanity were part of an exciting discussion that was based on a cultural exchange we’ll be doing a Netherlands-based youth activism organisation. The Students were asked, ‘What would you like to know from a dutch youth in Netherlands?’. Then we asked them to write down a key word (from the discussion). Key words were scrambled amongst them and they had to pick a keyword from a pile. The keyword they ended up with was the topic of their blogpost today. Here’s what they had to say on each keyword (issue):

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Nosizwe on ‘Challenge’:

If the question was directed to me the first thing that would come to my mind would be how things don’t always go the way I want them to. Now I would say the one challenge that most of us face would be getting our voices heard especially when people don’t even want to listen to what you have to say. We’re all faced with different challenges as we aren’t raised in the same families and aren’t influenced by the same things and sometimes the decisions we make are the main source of our challenges.

Nontombi on ‘Influence’:

What influences me the most is the music I listen to and how I see things. The music that I listen to mainly is hip-hop, but that’s not the only that genre that influences me in music, there are lots of other genres that I like and listen to. What I like to do is to mix them up and come up with my own style. I also mix the style of clothes according to different genres but make them fit. My mainly focus is on African hip-hop clothing, becoz I believe in loving and supporting my country in every aspect of life. I don’t like being influenced by friends becoz today a friend is saying this and tomorrow is saying that, which doesn’t comply in my lifestyle. So as free as a bird I live my life the way I want to.

Yandisa on ‘Lifestyle’:

Living in South Africa, there are different types of lifestyles. You get the style where you just have to live and not see what is happening around you or you can live your lifestyle to the fullest. Living your life to the fullest is in two ways, you either want to live your life by taking chances by making other people hurt or you can do what I do: live your life and making other people who are around you happier.

Happy Lifestyle is one of the concept that I consider when changing my lifestyle and for me I always make sure that everything that I am going to do and the thing that I have just done that it didn’t end up hurting someone else, and also since I am also human, I do something s without considering and it end up hurting someone. I make sure that it doesn’t hurt someone else again and I make sure that that person which I have done wrong I do something that will make that person to know that I’m really sorry.

Aphiwe on ‘Education’:

In my own opinion and experience, I think education is putting someone’s mind to maximum, it lets your mind go wild and perform at its best. I think education was introduced for two reasons: first to train someone’s mind and secondly to put one’s knowledge potential to maximum . Education is a gift of life no one can take it away from you. Thugs can rob your valuable things such as cell phones and clothes but they forget one thing to rob which is education, they can’t rob you of it – it’s something that you will die with. Education is the key that opens closed doors for everyone education is the key to success.

Nwabisa on ‘Peer Pressure’:

Peer pressure can be a good and a bad thing. I have experienced peer pressure in good manner. Because since I came to COSAT my behavior towards my books changed. I used to kind of not care what was going on in class because I believed I was clever but my grades were actually going south. Then I came to COSAT, the students and school’s environment thought me actual opposite. They’ve shown how to act in a more moral way. So I have experienced peer pressure by wanting to belong in the COSAT community by practicing their values.

Siphe on ‘Improvements’:

Improvement involves both prospective and retrospective reviews. It is aimed at improvement — measuring where you are, and figuring out ways to make things better. It specifically attempts to avoid attributing blame, and to create systems to prevent errors from happening.

Improvement activities can be very helpful in improving how things work. Trying to find where the “defect” in the system is, and figuring out new ways to do things can be challenging but also can be fun. It’s a great opportunity to “think outside the box”. An effective Improvement program can really help make your life better. So take challenges to get better improvements in life for yourself and for the country.

Busie on ‘Dream’:

My dream is for South Africa to be a better place. I wish to see our country becoming a place where everyone is willing to live peacefully with one another regardless of our religious, cultural, economical, sexual or racial differences. I hope that in doing so we will be embracing our stunning diversity at its truest roots. South Africa will be hosting the 2010 Soccer World Cup very soon and so we (as South Africans) should be united and prepared to welcome the world.

Bonginkosi on ‘Youth Empowerment’:

Youth empowerment for me possesses that element that actually defines the way teenagers inspire themselves. That creativity plays with my head and it goes around the fact that we have something to share as teenagers. It makes me proud, in this sense, for example, we as the youth we inspire ourselves by writing poems!!!

For me that is youth empowerment in a nutshell, that’s my own definition and opinion. What’s yours?

Sphamandla on ‘Wealth’:

My understanding of wealth, it is the definition of being rich or wealthy the person or a country is.It is also the quality of wellbeing .It also influences power, for instance, if you are wealthy you have that power to control others. It is the great amount of a particular valuable material possession or welfare. Is the quality of having good wealth.

Tash on ‘Obstacles’:

Main obstacle is life but then you need to divide life into different pieces. Poverty is the verse of everyday where people can’t discover their talents because their main focus is poverty. There is also crime that is destroying our leaders and citizens foundations. There are those who are being feared because of the path they took to get out of poverty. But they are just hidden/singing the same song about poverty. But in all that its part of life and just take it as another unpleasant day and make sure it does not repeat itself tomorrow cause life goes on.

Mlamli on ‘Change’:

Change is something that is happening here in South Africa. We as South African are still developing but there is some change happening in our country – especially since we’re going to be hosting the world cup there is a lot of development happening. But we have problems in our education system because most of the youth here don’t make it to university. That is one of the reasons that there isn’t enough change in the country. There are more people who are uneducated than those whore are educated .

Nkosikhona on ‘Pain’:

Pain is painful and undesirable to everyone. Many hate pain. Some even ask questions like “do we really need to go through pain”. To us as South Africans this word means a lot, which I cannot explain in simple terms that will make you feel satisfied. For one to understand ‘pain’, one needs to go through pain. As a South African I can try to give you a brief explanation, but don’t think what you’ll understand is really what it means, only because you need to experience it first.

Pain is part of us. Pain is nearly what we are expecting each and everyday. Please don’t get me wrong! South Africans’ ‘pain’ is different. Through pain we realize our purpose of living. During moments of pain we tend to find our true beings, not what people want us to be. True friends or ‘best friends’ are examined through pain just as gold goes through fire. For one to get what he/she wants to its best, one needs to go through pain for it. What easily comes, easily goes. We love pain, not because of the fact that it is pain, but because of its outcomes or things that come after pain.

Sbuja on ‘Influence’:

Influence is what really affects the way we think as young people of South Africa, some of us live in areas where there is poverty, substance abuse and violence. This affects their point of views and the way they think, do things and the kind of dreams & goals they have as young South Africans. We are also as South Africans influenced by the many opportunities we have and you learn to use them wisely so that you can achieve.

Nanzi on ‘You’:

I’m a 16 year old girl who is very serious about life, very driven and diligent. My motto in life is “Luck has nothing to do with it!” because I believe that everything that happens in my life was meant to happen. I love life and always make sure that I live life to the fullest; a wise woman once said that ‘tomorrow might never come’. I like people who know what they want and actually go for it, and never let anything get in their way. I love reading fantasy books because it’s the only time that I get to escape from reality and not think about my personal issues. I love thinking about the superiority of God. I’m very fascinated by the fact that so many people are willing to change their rebellious ways for HIM. Music, nature, poetry and family inspire me to be, and they actually influence the person that I am. My message for the youth is very simple ” be you!”.

Iran on ‘Cultural Diversity’:

In South Africa we are a diverse country because of the different cultures, people, customs we have. We as South Africans are people that are proud to be called South Africans, you might ask why or what makes us to be different, well that’s simple, the cultures we have make us who and what we are and it determines the choices we make and for the future. Without the cultures we have we wouldn’t know where we come from and in order to know where you going you must first know where you are going.

Yara on ‘Economy’:

My country has just recovered from the huge economical crises and during the time of the ecomical crises everything’s price was raised up everything was expensive back then. This affected us a lot as students and as youth because we don’t work and even that the taxi fair was also raised up because of the petrol consumption that has increased. In these kind of situations as youth we got to flow with the flow of the others meaning that we have nothing that we can do like disagreeing except to make a muchto those who know much than us but that won’t help either.

Have you been inthis kind of a situation or your country and how does that affect you as youth and as a student?

Mfundo on ‘Pride’:

First of all, what does “pride” mean to me as a youth of South Africa? According to my understanding, pride is a feeling of self-respect and personal worth, but most of all it is a right of being unique, a right of being an individual and having a freedom of being who you want to be.

The Students for Humanity were part of an exciting discussion that was based on a cultural exchange we’ll be doing a Netherlands-based youth activism organisation. The Students were asked, ‘What would you like to know from a dutch youth in Netherlands?’. Then we asked them to write down a key word (from the discussion). Key words were scrambled amongst them and they had to pick a keyword from a pile. The keyword they ended up with was the topic of their blogpost today. Here’s what they had to say on each keyword (issue):

(image under the creative commons by Feuillu)

Nosizwe on ‘Challenge’:

If the question was directed to me the first thing that would come to my mind would be how things don’t always go the way I want them to. Now I would say the one challenge that most of us face would be getting our voices heard especially when people don’t even want to listen to what you have to say. We’re all faced with different challenges as we aren’t raised in the same families and aren’t influenced by the same things and sometimes the decisions we make are the main source of our challenges.

Nontombi on ‘Influence’:

What influences me the most is the music I listen to and how I see things. The music that I listen to mainly is hip-hop, but that’s not the only that genre that influences me in music, there are lots of other genres that I like and listen to. What I like to do is to mix them up and come up with my own style. I also mix the style of clothes according to different genres but make them fit. My mainly focus is on African hip-hop clothing, becoz I believe in loving and supporting my country in every aspect of life. I don’t like being influenced by friends becoz today a friend is saying this and tomorrow is saying that, which doesn’t comply in my lifestyle. So as free as a bird I live my life the way I want to.

Yandisa on ‘Lifestyle’:

Living in South Africa, there are different types of lifestyles. You get the style where you just have to live and not see what is happening around you or you can live your lifestyle to the fullest. Living your life to the fullest is in two ways, you either want to live your life by taking chances by making other people hurt or you can do what I do: live your life and making other people who are around you happier.

Happy Lifestyle is one of the concept that I consider when changing my lifestyle and for me I always make sure that everything that I am going to do and the thing that I have just done that it didn’t end up hurting someone else, and also since I am also human, I do something s without considering and it end up hurting someone. I make sure that it doesn’t hurt someone else again and I make sure that that person which I have done wrong I do something that will make that person to know that I’m really sorry.

Aphiwe on ‘Education’:

In my own opinion and experience, I think education is putting someone’s mind to maximum, it lets your mind go wild and perform at its best. I think education was introduced for two reasons: first to train someone’s mind and secondly to put one’s knowledge potential to maximum . Education is a gift of life no one can take it away from you. Thugs can rob your valuable things such as cell phones and clothes but they forget one thing to rob which is education, they can’t rob you of it – it’s something that you will die with. Education is the key that opens closed doors for everyone education is the key to success.

Nwabisa on ‘Peer Pressure’:

Peer pressure can be a good and a bad thing. I have experienced peer pressure in good manner. Because since I came to COSAT my behavior towards my books changed. I used to kind of not care what was going on in class because I believed I was clever but my grades were actually going south. Then I came to COSAT, the students and school’s environment thought me actual opposite. They’ve shown how to act in a more moral way. So I have experienced peer pressure by wanting to belong in the COSAT community by practicing their values.

Siphe on ‘Improvements’:

Improvement involves both prospective and retrospective reviews. It is aimed at improvement — measuring where you are, and figuring out ways to make things better. It specifically attempts to avoid attributing blame, and to create systems to prevent errors from happening.

Improvement activities can be very helpful in improving how things work. Trying to find where the “defect” in the system is, and figuring out new ways to do things can be challenging but also can be fun. It’s a great opportunity to “think outside the box”. An effective Improvement program can really help make your life better. So take challenges to get better improvements in life for yourself and for the country.

Busie on ‘Dream’:

My dream is for South Africa to be a better place. I wish to see our country becoming a place where everyone is willing to live peacefully with one another regardless of our religious, cultural, economical, sexual or racial differences. I hope that in doing so we will be embracing our stunning diversity at its truest roots. South Africa will be hosting the 2010 Soccer World Cup very soon and so we (as South Africans) should be united and prepared to welcome the world.

Bonginkosi on ‘Youth Empowerment’:

Youth empowerment for me possesses that element that actually defines the way teenagers inspire themselves. That creativity plays with my head and it goes around the fact that we have something to share as teenagers. It makes me proud, in this sense, for example, we as the youth we inspire ourselves by writing poems!!!

For me that is youth empowerment in a nutshell, that’s my own definition and opinion. What’s yours?

Sphamandla on ‘Wealth’:

My understanding of wealth, it is the definition of being rich or wealthy the person or a country is.It is also the quality of wellbeing .It also influences power, for instance, if you are wealthy you have that power to control others. It is the great amount of a particular valuable material possession or welfare. Is the quality of having good wealth.

Tash on ‘Obstacles’:

Main obstacle is life but then you need to divide life into different pieces. Poverty is the verse of everyday where people can’t discover their talents because their main focus is poverty. There is also crime that is destroying our leaders and citizens foundations. There are those who are being feared because of the path they took to get out of poverty. But they are just hidden/singing the same song about poverty. But in all that its part of life and just take it as another unpleasant day and make sure it does not repeat itself tomorrow cause life goes on.

Mlamli on ‘Change’:

Change is something that is happening here in South Africa. We as South African are still developing but there is some change happening in our country – especially since we’re going to be hosting the world cup there is a lot of development happening. But we have problems in our education system because most of the youth here don’t make it to university. That is one of the reasons that there isn’t enough change in the country. There are more people who are uneducated than those whore are educated .

Nkosikhona on ‘Pain’:

Pain is painful and undesirable to everyone. Many hate pain. Some even ask questions like “do we really need to go through pain”. To us as South Africans this word means a lot, which I cannot explain in simple terms that will make you feel satisfied. For one to understand ‘pain’, one needs to go through pain. As a South African I can try to give you a brief explanation, but don’t think what you’ll understand is really what it means, only because you need to experience it first.

Pain is part of us. Pain is nearly what we are expecting each and everyday. Please don’t get me wrong! South Africans’ ‘pain’ is different. Through pain we realize our purpose of living. During moments of pain we tend to find our true beings, not what people want us to be. True friends or ‘best friends’ are examined through pain just as gold goes through fire. For one to get what he/she wants to its best, one needs to go through pain for it. What easily comes, easily goes. We love pain, not because of the fact that it is pain, but because of its outcomes or things that come after pain.

Sbuja on ‘Influence’:

Influence is what really affects the way we think as young people of South Africa, some of us live in areas where there is poverty, substance abuse and violence. This affects their point of views and the way they think, do things and the kind of dreams & goals they have as young South Africans. We are also as South Africans influenced by the many opportunities we have and you learn to use them wisely so that you can achieve.

Nanzi on ‘You’:

I’m a 16 year old girl who is very serious about life, very driven and diligent. My motto in life is “Luck has nothing to do with it!” because I believe that everything that happens in my life was meant to happen. I love life and always make sure that I live life to the fullest; a wise woman once said that ‘tomorrow might never come’. I like people who know what they want and actually go for it, and never let anything get in their way. I love reading fantasy books because it’s the only time that I get to escape from reality and not think about my personal issues. I love thinking about the superiority of God. I’m very fascinated by the fact that so many people are willing to change their rebellious ways for HIM. Music, nature, poetry and family inspire me to be, and they actually influence the person that I am. My message for the youth is very simple ” be you!”.

Iran on ‘Cultural Diversity’:

In South Africa we are a diverse country because of the different cultures, people, customs we have. We as South Africans are people that are proud to be called South Africans, you might ask why or what makes us to be different, well that’s simple, the cultures we have make us who and what we are and it determines the choices we make and for the future. Without the cultures we have we wouldn’t know where we come from and in order to know where you going you must first know where you are going.

Yara on ‘Economy’:

My country has just recovered from the huge economical crises and during the time of the ecomical crises everything’s price was raised up everything was expensive back then. This affected us a lot as students and as youth because we don’t work and even that the taxi fair was also raised up because of the petrol consumption that has increased. In these kind of situations as youth we got to flow with the flow of the others meaning that we have nothing that we can do like disagreeing except to make a muchto those who know much than us but that won’t help either.

Have you been inthis kind of a situation or your country and how does that affect you as youth and as a student?

Mfundo on ‘Pride’:

First of all, what does “pride” mean to me as a youth of South Africa? According to my understanding, pride is a feeling of self-respect and personal worth, but most of all it is a right of being unique, a right of being an individual and having a freedom of being who you want to be.